Piet to Rod, Heloisa and Maria
Dear Heloisa, Maria,
Rod,
Thank you so much,
Heloisa, for such a
touching description of your reaction to your illness and life
concerns. Yes,
it is such a great paradox that insecurity leads us to holding on,
whereas the
exact opposite, letting go, is what gives us real security. It goes so
much
against everything we have learned in life, and yet in times of real
stress it
is the only real solution.
If we could
just always remember it, in the
middle of great anxiety and pressure! This has probably been the most
important
function of traditional religions, to prepare people to remember to
surrender,
by giving them ideas and images to access in times of crisis—even
though those
ideas and images, when analyzed by the modern mind, may seem ludicrous
they
were used for a very good reason. The problem is that we now need to
overhaul
them, since they no longer work very well. The use of a working
hypothesis is
one modest attempt to do so.
When we started these
rounds of the WoK
experiment, I did not expect our discussions to focus more and more on
surrendering and letting go. But in retrospect, it does all seem to fit
very
well. New insight and creativity cannot appear where there is no new
opening to
make room for it. And given that the working hypothesis claims that all
is
complete, the simplest approach to testing it is to see whether we can
just
open ourselves for that completeness, without standing in the way. If
the
working hypothesis is really true, nothing needs to be done, nothing
can even
be done to make things more complete, so there is nothing left to be
done.
This really
goes against the grain, against
the way we have been raised and educated, against the way we see
ourselves as
being in continuous need of this and that. And this is what makes the
in-depth
exploration of the working hypothesis so fascinating: it seems
ridiculous and
impossible, and yet it intriguingly seems to resonate with what many of
the
great sages of the past in all kinds of very different traditions have
told us.
People around them have reported about tranquility and serenity of
those sages.
They seemed to have found a type of peace and equipoise that struck
their contemporaries
as marvelous and bewildering, at the same time. And we, too, can taste
at least
some of that marvel, as Heloisa has just reported to us.
We have ten
more days, before concluding
the long haul of our WoK experiment, which has been running now for
three
months already. If you would like to make some concluding remarks,
observations, suggestions for further WoK activities, or any other
statements,
please don't hesitate to do so. In particular I would love to hear what
you
have gotten out of working with the working hypothesis, and to what
extent you
consider it to be an interesting approach to explore further.
Piet